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5 silly myths about negative emotions

5 silly myths about negative emotions

Fear, guilt, shame, sorrow, sadness, and, of course, anger - all these emotions are negative undeserved reputation. Many believe that it is better they do not feel at all, and if someone takes it and automatically becomes a very, very bad man. Psychologist Elena Lavrov tells why the negative feelings are useful and they should not be afraid. Myth 1: negative emotions - bad, bad Apparently, the first place in the top of the most awful emotions in the world occupy the anger and fear. The average person wants to kill all right in the morning: enraged people in the subway and bus, annoying colleagues in the office elevator. And when the evening cheer quietly drink coffee with a friend, the next will definitely sit screaming couple with a small child. How long?

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Rules of life and learning first-grader

Beginning of the school year for many kids due to stress. Especially for first-graders. Below are tips for parents of first-graders - how to behave with your toddler, who went to school. Remember, the game still remains the principal activity of the child, why reinvent the conditions under which the boring doing homework turned into a game. For example, if a baby has problems with the bill, offer evening the whole family to play bingo with the calculations. If the child sat down at the typewriter, take on the role of regulator and learn finally the concept of "left" and "right." In the first grade, children often confuse these concepts.

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How to put the baby to sleep "without a fight"?

"Sighted cartoon - and in bed!" - Threaten you palikom his five-year daze. But it is loud and tireless, refuses to obey. Evenings in your home is played the same constant action: "Go to sleep!" - "Well, another most rasposledny cartoon!" - "Did you hear me?" - "I'm not tired and do not want to sleep! I will not go-oo-oo! I will not-at-y! " Aquatic Skoda to start embarking on a roar, then it is necessary to write, then drink, then she suddenly falls ill leg, then ... In general, the daily nagging "zagonyanie" child in bed brings us to despair. Why there are so many stubbornness and the desire to thwart?

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Overweight in children

Fattest kid in the world, according to Guinness World Records, in 7 220 years weighed more than pounds. This, of course, prohibitive figure, but today almost every second student suffers from excess weight. At the same few parents are struggling with this problem, and often become themselves to blame, because the main cause of excess weight among children - this overfeeding "granny cakes" sweetness without limitation, "adult" portions for the five-year plan, etc.

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What does a child need to be completely happy?

None of the parents who would not dream to create your baby happy and serene childhood. But do we know how to achieve this? Criteria happy childhood long ago developed by psychologists, doctors, sociologists and educators. And whether they want mom and dad all to ensure your baby - it depends on them.

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Lonely and unhappy: is there a crown of celibacy?

She is successful, attractive, sociable, intelligent and lonely. Men perceive it only as a friend, colleague, companion, and she herself does not consider them as potential mates. Why so? Revision of the senses. Explanations that are statistically more women, or "normal men have become extinct as a class" - is not an excuse.