Today: January 18 2018
Fear, guilt, shame, sadness, sadness and, of course, anger - all these emotions have an undeserved reputation of negative. Many believe that it is better not to experience them at all, but if someone shows them, it automatically becomes a very, very bad person. Psychologist Elena Lavrova tells why negative feelings are useful and they should not be afraid. Myth 1: negative emotions - bad, harmful Apparently, the first place in the top of the most terrible emotions in the world is occupied with anger and fear. The average person wants to kill everyone right from the morning: people are furious in the subway and bus, irritating colleagues in the office elevator. And when in the evening you decide to calmly drink coffee with your girlfriend, there will certainly be a couple next to you with a screaming little child. How long?
The beginning of the school year for many children is associated with stress. This is especially true for first-graders. Below we give advice for first-graders' parents - how to behave with your baby, who went to school. Remember: the game is still the main activity of the child, so invent such conditions under which boring homework turned into a game. For example, if the kid has a problem with the account, offer the evening the whole family to play a lotto with calculations. If the child has sat down at the machines, take on the role of regulator and learn at last the concepts of "left" and "right." In the first class, children often confuse these concepts.
"You'll see the cartoon - and go to bed!" - Threaten you with a finger to your five-year-old child. But it, loud and tireless, refuses to obey. In the evenings in your house the same invariable action is played: "Go to sleep!" - "Well, one more most last-minute cartoon!" - "Did you hear me?" - "I'm not tired at all and do not want to sleep! I will not go, I will not!" A shoestring starts to roar for a start, then she needs to write, then drink, then her leg suddenly ill, then ... In general, the daily agonizing "chilling" the child into bed leads us to despair. Why is there so much stubbornness and desire to contradict him?
Fattest kid in the world, according to Guinness World Records, in 7 220 years weighed more than pounds. This, of course, prohibitive figure, but today almost every second student suffers from excess weight. At the same few parents are struggling with this problem, and often become themselves to blame, because the main cause of excess weight among children - this overfeeding "granny cakes" sweetness without limitation, "adult" portions for the five-year plan, etc.
None of the parents who would not dream to create your baby happy and serene childhood. But do we know how to achieve this? Criteria happy childhood long ago developed by psychologists, doctors, sociologists and educators. And whether they want mom and dad all to ensure your baby - it depends on them.
She is successful, attractive, sociable, intelligent and lonely. Men perceive it only as a friend, colleague, companion, and she herself does not consider them as potential mates. Why so? Revision of the senses. Explanations that are statistically more women, or "normal men have become extinct as a class" - is not an excuse.