Today: October 19 2017
Fear, guilt, shame, sadness, sadness and, of course, anger - all these emotions have an undeserved reputation of negative. Many believe that it is better not to experience them at all, but if someone shows them, it automatically becomes a very, very bad person. Psychologist Elena Lavrova tells why negative feelings are useful and they should not be afraid. Myth 1: negative emotions - bad, harmful Apparently, the first place in the top of the most terrible emotions in the world is occupied with anger and fear. The average person wants to kill everyone right from the morning: people are furious in the subway and bus, irritating colleagues in the office elevator. And when in the evening you decide to calmly drink coffee with your girlfriend, there will certainly be a couple next to you with a screaming little child. How long?
If a man can not understand what your mood and what you want, do not be angry at him - it is his nature.
Observation of 2000 young families showed that love really lives for three years (in some cases three and a half years).
One of the instincts of man - is procreation. Talk about whether you need to have children or not, I will not (it's a personal). And most people still want to have children. We will not go into the details of why - whether they really love, or the proverbial glass of water in old age. It happens that does not want to, but it just happened ...
Probably everyone at least once in a lifetime encounter with jealousy. It is unlikely that someone is associated with something pleasant, rather the contrary.
It is hardly possible to find at least one married couple in the world, which did not arise crises, when the house is constantly present disputes. This tense situation frustrates all family members and does not lead to anything good.