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5 silly myths about negative emotions

5 silly myths about negative emotions

Fear, guilt, shame, sorrow, sadness, and, of course, anger - all these emotions are negative undeserved reputation. Many believe that it is better they do not feel at all, and if someone takes it and automatically becomes a very, very bad man. Psychologist Elena Lavrov tells why the negative feelings are useful and they should not be afraid. Myth 1: negative emotions - bad, bad Apparently, the first place in the top of the most awful emotions in the world occupy the anger and fear. The average person wants to kill all right in the morning: enraged people in the subway and bus, annoying colleagues in the office elevator. And when the evening cheer quietly drink coffee with a friend, the next will definitely sit screaming couple with a small child. How long?

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If your feelings are easily offend. What do people with high sensitivity?

Increased emotionality is no longer a sign of weakness - it is a feature of the psyche. The existence of highly sensitive people scientifically proven. In a world where more and more people can not cope with stress, American psychologists closely studying people who are particularly inclined to worry about everything. If you can not stand bright lights and bustle around, you can not watch horror movies, and watching the news about the earthquake or military conflict, starting to cry out of pity for the victims, you - a highly sensitive person. According to the author of the term Elaine N. Aaron, like you, about 20% in the world. This means that it is time to stop hiding their feelings and do not be ashamed of that sob in the movie.

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How to change the home appliances of 10 years

In 2006 year in our homes we worked quite a different technique, and we decided to take the interim results: remember the main innovations in consumer devices over the past decade. Washing machines Washing machines have become more manageable - almost all now have a touch screen, but some machines can even lead to the phone. Grew Receive up today narrow models, depth 40-45 cm, can accommodate 7-8 kg (compared with 4-5 2006 kg per year). Washing became more careful, do not lose in quality: many manufacturers (Miele, Bosch) created the relief washing drums.

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March fateful life programs: how to prepare for eclipse?

In March, we expect you two important astrological events - solar and lunar eclipses that will occur 9-23-th and March respectively. The period between eclipses, called "corridor eclipses", is a truly momentous, as committed in this period of conscious actions aimed at improving the clearing and destiny, changing the lives of the most radically. Unfortunately, the unconscious thoughts and actions, as well as uncontrollable emotions have the same life-changing impact, as well as informed. In other words, everything we think, say, feel, do or intend to do during the "corridor eclipses", has a powerful effect and changes in the pattern of destiny.

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The rules of etiquette: how to receive visitors?

How to surprise friends and strict bourgeois parents when feeding brandy and what can distract guests from politics - rules of etiquette by Alyona Doletskaya, journalist, style guru and author of the new book "Pro Jam." About serving Serving - it is also a creative and joyful, like culinary exercises. If logged bohemian friends and gatherings will be richly polished variety of libations, I put a simple transparent glasses, and plates not made of the finest Limoges porcelain bone, and simple Dulevsky, but hand-painted by artists. So it will be fun and appropriate to the situation. About Porcelain When we sit down to drink tea at home, I always ask, "Do you now from a big or a small cup? ... "

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Learn about yourself something new to the last digit of your year of birth

It is believed that the year of your birth is predetermined from above. And his soul chooses not accidental. The last digit of the year of your birth is especially significant. It protects one of the five basic elements. And your element defines the important moments in your destiny. Of course, you can not take it seriously. But check by the resource aidami interesting, is not it? According to the ancient Chinese calendar, which is oriented east horoscope, at any given time in the world ruled by one of the five basic elements - Wood, Fire, Earth, Air, Water. Astrologers believe that these elements exert a powerful influence not only on nature but also on the character of the person. They determine his mental organization, habits and preferences.

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